Contemporary Women And Their Mr. Right

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Finding herself in the burgeoning era of the 21st century, todayas woman has a myriad of standards she expects to find in a future partner. The women of today are grounded in their own plans, goals, and careers. Declaring judgment upon the man in her life has become a fastidious, abrupt process in which she determines the favorable and reasonable factors of his character.

She has accomplished everything she set out to do thus far, finished college, got a great job. She is happy, but decides it is time to consider a more serious relationship than she experienced while in school. She will not treat her opportunities in love any more lightly than she has her professional opportunities, she will make a conscious deliberate decision.

What will she desire of a partner? All of the traits she desires will be contingent on her personality, values, and past experience. She may desire a man similar to her; one who is as driven and dedicated in his professional life. She may also desire someone similar to her father, who will create a home with her that mirrors the one she grew up in. Or she could desire a total opposite, a challenge, someone who has a completely different world view with whom she can share different and new experiences.

Considering all of these options, her choices will be as varied as the women themselves. Finding a man who mirrors herself she would expect to find a man who is not lazy, one who puts forth much effort into his goals. She would be expecting to find a hard working man, a man who leaves no stone unturned, and finds quitting no option in life. This type of woman would find attractive qualities in a man who puts his own sense of self first and foremost.

If she is searching for someone she can recreate her parents relationship with there are different qualities to look for there as well. Perhaps her childhood home was presided over by parents completely committed to one another, who took most seriously their pledge of loyalty to one another and faithfulness. Or her parents could have had vastly different personalities that never the less fit together comfortably and ended with them recounting their separate days at dinner. She could have also potentially found her childhood home a lonely place with little affection or devotion and could still be comfortable living that way. She would be looking for a man capable of little intimacy, someone who shares her life only as much as he shares her space in the home.

Some women want and search for excitement and stimulation. She would desire provocation of thought and action. This type of woman may like a man who is eclectic, flits from one ideal to another, and creates a sense of anonymity. This man would be creative, fearless and rebellious.

We might not determine what type of man a woman wants because she may not have decided herself. There are as many types or women as there are men. She could desire a man who has all of these qualities. She might want someone who is diligent in his career, and yet often crazy in his free time, someone a little out of the ordinary.

We should never forget that like men, women search for the traits they find most attractive. They will be looking for men who they desire mentally and physically. Women are mysterious creatures often defying explanation; and accepting that mystery as inevitable will bring you closer to what their ideals really are.